Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
Hi Stacey and Joel
A warm if sad welcome to the forum, I think it has all been said already by the other ladies on here, but I echo their thoughts and hope that you will find as much comfort and support as I have on here that will help you through your toughest times.
Take care and keep talking it really does help.
Becs xxx
Sams Mummy who gained his butterfly wings aged 21 weeks due to anencephaly.
Thanx Sarah I have been a little preoccupied with my beautiful girl who arrived Friday 8 feb at 10.59 weighing in at a portly 8lb 4oz.
Look forward to seeing u all at the next catch up
Becs xxx[attachment=0:ydtzzntg]ImageUploadedByTapatalk1360500031.377640.jpg[/attachment:ydtzzntg]
Well done Sarah, sure u will be great n like Carla I promise to sponsor u too will check the link out from fb.
Go team Tyler xxxx
Oh Katie
Once again I can relate to all your words the blame, the guilt, the tears, the not wanting to leave my bed, the anger and venting especially at people and their platitudes … As if they can even come close to understanding the complexities of the emotions you are feeling, sometimes i used to wish they wouldnt say anything as it didnt help it only made me more angry. I have since learnt not to suffer fools anymore and am less tolerant of many situations I would have previously put up with. I also now truely believe what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Jim and I grieved very differently too, early days I was a mess and he held it together then vice versa also I wanted to talk and he didn’t do found this forum a good way of venting and receiving the support which actually made me feel a little bit more normal. But in the long term it has drawn us closer as a couple as no one else in the world will understand ur pain better – even if we feel it differently at times.
Sorry if I have rambled on a bit but hope it has helped in some small way n keep talking Hun it honestly does help.
Hugs to you
Becs xxx
This is beautiful, many sentiments I have thought in the past but never been able to put into words.
Hope it helped a little.
Becs xxx
This is beautiful, many sentiments I have thought in the past but never been able to put into words.
Hope it helped a little.
Becs xxx
Hi all guess I will have to pass on the Feb meet as my C section is booked for a week on Friday so might be a little busy 🙂
Hope ur all well n hopefully see you at the next one
Becs xxx
Hello Isobel-Rae’s Mummy and Daddy,
As Max says a warm welcome to you both at this sad sad time.
I lost my son Sam at 21 weeks so too understand the acute pain you are currently feeling, but since have been blessed with my daughter Lexi who is 20 months and have another due any day now, so would like to reassure you that things do get better, your life is changed forever but the pain does ease.
In the meantime feel free to off load any feelings on this board as it has been my lifeline in the past, it may sometimes seem a little daunting or quiet on here but I think we all pop on and off regularly and are happy to offer support as we all know the importance of this in our healing process.
Be kind to yourselves and I am always here to listen.
Love and hugs
Becs xxx
Hi Michelle
My placenta was low lying too but had moved when I was scanned although it did show that our little ones growth had slowed hence why we were back again on Monday (when I saw u) fortunately all is well and I now have a date for this little one to arrive but Mr Davies won’t be doing my op which I am rather sad about as he has been thru so much with us from the ivf’s to losing Sam.
I too have my moments of worry not just about the last little while but also how I will cope with 2 and how Lexi will react. Sure it will all be good in the end for both of us.Carla I can’t believe you are back at work already and Daisy is such a big girl too.
Max – I am glad Freddie is growing nicely too I can imagine u have your hands full with 3!!!
We must arrange a catch up for all soon it seems forever since I have seen you all.
Take care all n keep us posted Michelle
BxxxWe will be thinking of you and your gorgeous butterfly, i really think the first anniversary is the hardest so big hugs to you. we hope u can hang onto those positive feelings for this pregnancy good luck with the scan Friday
Becs xx
Happy New Year Madam Butterfly and all our butterfly family.
May I take this opportunity to thank you all for another years support through the good and bad days although I know I am one of the lucky ones who have more good than bad days with Lexi growing into the most beautiful little girl and a little sister for her and Sam due very soon I feel very blessed, although still miss our little man very much.
So on that note may I wish you all the very best for 2013 and thanks again.
Jim, Becs, Sam, Lexi n Bump 😉 xxx
